Problems With Gentle Parenting
The Good, The Bad & The Fixes!

Sound familiar?
You try to stay calm… but the toddler negotiations are next-level.
You’ve read all the books… yet bedtime still feels like a battle.
You want to be gentle… but sometimes it feels like your kid’s in charge.
You feel guilty for raising your voice… or worse, for not raising it when needed.
💛 If you’re nodding along, this guide was made for you.
What You’ll Get Inside:
Inside the 10 pages, you’ll uncover:
✅ How to stop being “too nice” without becoming harsh
✅ What to do when your child debates every single decision
✅ The burnout trap (and how to avoid it)
✅ Ways to make Islam a natural part of your parenting
✅ Reminders from the Sunnah about discipline and love
✅ And… how to get dads on board too!
What Muslim parents are saying:


This isn’t a course. It’s not another theory-heavy eBook.
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Written by a Muslim Mum, For Muslim Mums
Assalaamu alaykum! I’m Noor — a mum, a writer, and Islamic studies student who’s been where you are.
I created this guide to help other mums like me raise confident, kind, Islam-led kids… without the chaos. 💕
Let’s parent smarter — together.
FAQ: Gentle Parenting—The Real Talk Edition
AKA: The good, the messy, and the “please stop licking the walls” moments.
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1. What even is this guide?
This is your no-fluff, real-talk, 10-page survival guide to gentle parenting—especially for the days when your kid argues like a junior lawyer and bedtime feels like a hostage negotiation. You'll get solid, Islam-based tips that actually work (yes, even when you're running on 2 hours of sleep and 3 cups of chai).
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2. Who’s this for?
Muslim parents who love the idea of being patient and kind… but also low-key wonder if they’ve accidentally handed their child full control of the household. 😅 If you want to stay gentle but still get your kid to listen—this is totally your jam.
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3. What will I actually learn?
Glad you asked! You’ll learn how to:
✅ Set boundaries without meltdowns (yours or theirs)
✅ Be kind and firm (yep, it’s possible!)
✅ Handle misbehaviour without going full volcano
✅ Discipline the Sunnah way—calm, wise, and effective -
4. Is this just theory?
Nope. This isn’t a “just breathe and journal” kind of thing. It’s packed with real-life, grab-and-go fixes that you can use the next time your child throws a tantrum because their toast is cut “the wrong way.”
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5. How do I get this awesome PDF?
As soon as you complete your order, you’ll get a download link straight to your inbox—faster than a toddler can say “I don’t like broccoli” after asking for it.
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6. Is it Islamically aligned?
100%! We’ve woven in gems from the Qur’an, Hadith, and the beautiful example of the Prophet ﷺ. So you can parent gently and intentionally—with your akhirah in mind and your sanity (mostly) intact.
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7. Is it a real book I can hold?
It’s a digital PDF—so no shipping, no waiting, and no sad mailbox checks. Just download it, read it on your phone or tablet, or print it out if you’re old school like that.
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8. Do I need to be some parenting guru to understand this?
Absolutely not. Whether you’re brand new to gentle parenting or you’ve been at it for a while but your kids still treat consequences like optional suggestions—this guide has your back.
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9. What if I have questions or just want to chat?
Slide into my DMs on Instagram @fectiv.online or email me anytime at hello@fectiv.online. I’m here to support you—not judge you for feeding your kids cereal for dinner (again).
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10. I’m in. How do I get it?
Click the button below and let’s turn your “please listen to me” days into “alhamdulillah, that actually worked” days. 🎉